Oooooo-kay. I posted stripped-down version of the query to sgagenrefinders, and the mod THERE posted I needed to reword b/c it sounded like I was asking for a specific story.
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I nearly replied by asking why don't they create a f*cking template for posting so that posters don't pull their hair out trying to figure out how to word it so it doesn't trip their bad girl alarm???
You know, I love being in my 50s. I could give a shit anymore what people think of me...the only reason I didn't reply like that was b/c I didn't want to get tossed off the comm *gg*. Otherwise, I'd let it rip. It's so very cathartic.